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She fell off again today. And the only reason is because her lower leg went straight out behind her and then she was leaning forward for the next few strides and couldn’t sit up bc she has no core strength, so the horse slightly dipped is head down and she went flying off.

And the worst part is she blamed it on the horse being “spicy” when he didn’t do anything. He’s a chill lesson horse who is a dream to ride, I’ve barely ridden him but I love him. And she thinks she’s still the best rider in the world, and won’t take advice from anyone. And also, I don’t know how my trainer keeps allowing her to jump higher and higher. AND my mom (who knows nothing about horses) boosts her ego by saying “good job” to everything, not know what a brat she’s created. She also accepted the definition that the horse is “spicy” and it’s all his fault and not at all my sister. My sister is incredibly rude whenever my parents aren’t around (she yelled at my grandfather for trying to help her).

Again I try to support everyone, and I don’t like making posts like this but I need somewhere to rant to other horsey people who will actually understand. Most of my friends don’t ride.

(Pic of her lower leg)

I‘m so sorry to hear that! Wish I could help.

kht natasha

omg my sister is the same and she acts like its the horses shes went through 14th alr and 2 got put down bc she was being abusive

Oh no I hope she gets better at riding but if she won’t take advice then she probably won’t get better🫤😖

Zenki

Baylee_hh💖✨ yeah, anyone who blames the horse is not getting anywhere in this sport. #1 rule: it’s never the horses fault (except for very certain and specific scenarios in my opinion) but lacking core strength is not the horses fault

*~Astro~*

I'm so sorry! She really should be taken off of that horse is she wants to act like that!

*~Astro~*

I mean I don't wanna be a jerk to your sister but if she wants to ride him then she needs to learn how to respect the horse and take ownership for her mistakes.

kht natasha

Lily HH no kidding!

Zenki

Lily HH exactly!! My trainer is clearly uncomfortable with her blaming the horse (yet continues to let her jump high) but doesn’t say anything maybe because it’s not her kid? Idk